What Men Think About Women But Never Say

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What Men Think About Women.

        Between romantic comedies, magazines, and generally baseless cultural assumptions, women have long been guessing what are  inside the man’s brain. His feet are slanted towards you at a 15-degree angle? Then he’s in love. 30-degree angle? He wants nothing to do with you. Then there are the totally speculative what he really wants,


Men are complex creatures, and men will admit that they can be a bit of trouble sometimes, especially when it comes to communicating what they really want. Whether it’s fear of rejection, fear of butting up against cultural norms, or fear of compromising masculinity, or they often keep our true thoughts to themselves. It’s a shame too because then they leave it up to Hollywood and magazines to tell women what they’re thinking. In order to solve all that, take a look at the biggest things men think about women but never say:

“You’re probably attracted to me”
According to a recent study by the American Academy of Sleep Medicine, as men become tired they begin to overestimate a woman’s sexual interest in him. So if the feeling isn’t mutual, let us down firmly but nicely. While men can be obnoxiously overconfident, sometimes it’s literally brain chemistry.

Make the first move
Even the manliest of dudes don’t like to face rejection and get their feelings hurt. They’re probably all for trying to pick you up, but give them a hint that they may have a shot before we dive in. If you’re not going to initiate an interaction then maybe open your body posture, touch us on the arm, or shoot us a warm smile — just give us an excuse, any excuse, to think they won’t be humiliated if they make a move, and they’ll be happy to strike up a conversation. They can see where things go from there, but there’s got to be somewhere to start.

You don’t have to watch “the game”/drink beer/play Halo
Somehow, a woman who loves sports and can rack up a kill streak on Halo became a part of the Manic Pixie Dream Girl ideal. Whatever the reason, there’s no need to lounge in your t-shirt or grab a spot in front of the flat screen before the game if you’re not really into it. Doing what you want is most important. If you genuinely embody a more “classic” femininity as a woman — one who abhors video games and loves to shop — do that. We have our guy friends for the other stuff.

You can be the boss in the bedroom
Traditional gender roles are cool and all, but, sometimes, it’s nice to have the woman take charge. I don’t need to be thrown on the floor, blindfolded or choked to get excited (if you do, then more power to you), but give us a few directions and tell us what exactly it is that’ll make you happy. If the guy seems stressed out it’s probably because he’s nervous he won’t please you. So, weird as it may sound, if you take control once in a while, it can be just what he needs to loosen up a little.

Going natural implies trust

A woman wearing no makeup is often eons sexier than one with too much. Wearing a little can be quite nice and if it gives you confidence then go on ahead. Yet the vulnerability and trust that going natural implies when you’re one-on-one is enough to make most guys’ hearts jump.

No Fake, Be Real
It is absolutely normal to give your effort in putting up your best in front of people. This is a usual phase for women, especially during the initial stages of a relationship. However, if you always run after putting up the mask of being the best, it is going to hard enough for you to wear it off at one point, and that is when you will not be able to recognize yourself ending up with frustration.

Men do not like fake women. They want to spend the life with someone who is real and confident about herself. If you are a sporty person, don’t pretend in front of your man to be someone who’s into fashion and shopping. Just be yourself. Men hate pretense. Your man is going to love you even more once he will get to know the real you.

Men are totally complex creatures. Women often need to work hard at guessing what the men are thinking. Thus, they end up with their own assumptions which, of course, the men find not so satisfactory. What a man thinks can only be known to him. However, whatever he says does not always match with what he thinks.


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